Surviving Our Past

During the formative years of our life, many of us experience physical and emotional wounds perpetrated by family, neighbors and friends of our family.

 

These events caused parts of our soul to splinter off and embed in our subconscious mind. We are disjointed and incomplete, because our basic human needs in these areas were never met.

 

Some of us barely survive our past experiences, and we drag the wounds with us into adulthood. Victimization took away our choices and we feel trapped.

 

We even mistreat our self by either putting our needs last and allowing other people to take advantage of us, or punishing our self with further pain and neglect, or becoming obsessed with our own needs and walling our heart from further hurt by shutting down our emotions and becoming self-sufficient.

 

We may allow the demon of perfectionism to control our life, because we fear further rejection or feel the need to earn love and acceptance; or we may adopt a lackadaisical and carefree attitude, unthinking and callous to the needs of others.

 

God leads us on the path of healing through sanctification. As we embrace the parts of our soul we left behind, we experience a wholeness and completion, which we never thought was possible (Colossians 2:10-15).

 

We integrate the pieces of our self, which we rejected in our past, and learn to relate to people and the will of God for our life as healthy individuals who are growing in the grace of God.

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God teaches us to set boundaries in our life to prevent future abuse and gives us a new heart in order to love others as He loves us.

 

God’s healing in our life sets us free to shed the shackles of negative emotions and to be more aware of living fully in each present moment with unceasing prayer and by walking in the Spirit.

 

Prayer:

Father God, You were right there with us during those times of abuse and neglect in our past. You understand our thought processes now and the negative emotions, which plague our life. You became a man and died for us. This act of selfless love now gives us the sense of being valued and unconditionally loved.

 

As we align our self and our beliefs with Your Word, we find fulfillment in this life, which we never thought possible on this side of heaven. You supply all of our needs according to Your glorious riches (Philippians 4:19). You restore our soul, anoint our head with oil, set a table for us in the presence of our enemies and our cup overflows with Your blessings (Psalm 23).

 

Thought for the Day:

We can relinquish the need to control life and other people in a misguided attempt to keep our self safe from further abuse and neglect, when we insist on taking part in decisions which affect our life, and trust God to work out even the worst circumstances for our good – Romans 8:28

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God Loves YOU

As humans, we search our whole life for love and acceptance. We seek it from our parents, spouse, children and even extramarital affairs. Some people will lie, cheat and wear masks to get love; and then lose it when they show their true colors. We use other people to gratify our own needs; and those attempting to gratify their needs, may abuse us.

We end up brokenhearted, callous, angry and bitter. The desire to love and to be loved is the most basic human need. What we fail to realize is just how deeply God loves each and every one of us. We are all special to Him, the apple of His eye (Psalm 17:8; Zechariah 2:8). He is big enough to care about every need that each of us will ever have. If we let Him, He spoils us as His precious children.

God crafted each of us as an original creation, and we are very special to God. Some are smart, others beautiful, or talented, creative, analytical, handy, artistic, etc. The main ingredient we all have is that we are loved by God (John 3:16-18). He does not love us for what we do, or who we are. He will never leave us for doing something stupid or bad (Romans 5:8). His love is unconditional.

God is our Father and He is interested in every detail of our life. He lives within authentic Believers by His Spirit and knows us better than we know our own self (John 14:23; Psalm 139:13-16; Matthew 10:30; 1 Corinthians 3:16). An intimate relationship is all that He desires from us, nothing more (Matthew 7:21-21). We love Him and give Him our devotion and obedience (John 14:15-31). His commands are never burdensome, but for our protection (John 5:3).

Prayer:
Father God, teach us to accept Your love for us and to give Your love to those You bring into our life. Help us to maintain peaceful and contented relationships with our family, friends neighbors and associates. Help us to love You more with each passing day and to devote everything we say, think and do for Your glory. Remind us to walk in Your love and to obey You with each moment of our life.

Thought for the Day:
God loves us and desires our love; and He gives us people in our life to love and to serve. – 1 John 4:7-21